She picked the school for a sport and academics. She was very excited to go to college up until May. Then she got too serious with a HS boyfriend. Now she says she doesn't care about playing the sport anymore and want to leave school. First she wanted to transfer to his college but he since quit on the second day and came home. Now she want to come home to be near the BF after completing the first term. We told her she needs to finish out the year. She is very stubborn and has developed an obsession.
Should I continue to insist on a full year which causes frequent arguments or should I soften hoping that she grows out of this irrational thinking eventually and decides for herself to stay for the second term?
Are there any references or data that demonstrates that decisions based on boyfriends are bad decisions?
Should we push her to see a school therapist?
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