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I'm a miserable stem major because of my father. Is it too late to switch?

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Let me explain how I got in this mess. I'm a sophomore at my flagship state school. My tuition is covered by a scholarship, but I still had to pay my room, board and fees. My dad was paying for all of this, but only on the condition that I choose a STEM major, and I had to choose from a few specific majors; Biology(premed), engineering or geology. I picked geology. Apparently that still isn't good enough and he's barely paying for anything and threatening to stop paying completely. My mother and her siblings told me not to worry about it. They're going to pay for everything, and they told me to pick a major I like. I want to major in a humanities field. My original dream was to double major in History and Spanish or English and Spanish. I had one Spanish class last semester and I did really well. I took French in high school and excelled. Is it too late for me? I feel stuck in the sciences because I've had so many science classes this semester. I also don't have any internships or job experience in the humanities fields, and I hear it takes a lot to be employable after graduation. All I've done freshman/sophomore year is get a few volunteer hours through Circle K because I was so busy studying. I plan to get a job next semester, and do more volunteer work. My transcript so far: First Semester Freshman Year College Algebra-B Fine Arts History- B World Geography Africa and Asia-A Biology 1201-C (eek!) Biology 1201 Lab- W Second Semester Freshman Year Trigonometry- W(I retook in summer school and got an A) Spanish 1001- A African American History- A Chemistry 1001- A Geology 1001-A First Semester Sophomore Year: Chemistry 1201- B+ Biology 1201- A- Geology 1002- A+ Geology 1001 Lab- B Race Relations- A- These are what I have in the class right now. They may go up or down depending on the final. Our school just starting doing the +/- system. Could I make my science classes marketable even as a humanities major? Will my bad grades hurt me? Should I just stick with the sciences? Am I far behind in getting experience to put on a resume? I'm not close to anyone that can give me advice on career opportunities that don't involve teaching, nursing or farm work. Honestly I also feel terrible that my mother's side of the family has to take on this financial responsibility and that my father has basically disowned me. I've tried to make my dad come around but he refuses to accept anything other than me being a premed student. I don't want to be a doctor. I know I would be a terrible premed and an even worse doctor. My father wanted to be premed growing up but couldn't because his father insisted he go into education. I don't understand why he's repeating that mistake with me. I have other older half-siblings and only one of them is in the medical field(nurse). He doesn't give them any grief about not being doctors, so I don't understand why he's pinning all of his hopes and dreams on me. I just don't know what career would actually please him and let me keep my sanity. Is there anything in the medical field for someone that likes to write and speak Spanish?

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